Givers and Takers.......

In this world there are people that give and other that take. I am a giver I will help do anything for anyone at anytime . It might be from picking kids up to cleaning , to watching there kids. But I have been on the getting end as well. My brother In law and sister In law helped put a roof on our house , built a deck and a shed for us. They also painted the inside of our house when I was in the Hosp have a baby they put new carpet and fixed my little girls room. I thank them so much for everything that they have done for us. There are people that said you don't do anything for us but they forget everything that has been done for them. Like picking all the trash out of there yard and putting in on a trailer and mowing there yard when they were at a lake. Or hanging wall paper up in there house ,sewing dustruffs for there bed and cleaning up there house when there kid got into the freezer and throwing cereal all over the carpet ,watching there kids when they went to work ,cutting wood for them and picking there kid up from pre-school and school. There is SO much more that I can say but I don't have to . You have been on the getting end so long that you don't know how to give to any one,family and friends. You put on a good show but people see throw you . You blame everyone else for your troubles at home and work and in the family. The troubles in this family started with your hubby . Now the family will never be fixed. You set anything they are lieing , he didn't try to run them off the road, or dust they when they where mowing there yard, scary the kids in the truck when you come flying up be hind them. I 't funny I have never seen Keith do that to you ,or his younger brother do that to you . If you was having that done to you maybe you would change your tune, but you wont and you know why ???? That is not in them . You also say that people in this family don't like you . You don't have to make up stuff to get people or family to like you. But when you set and say I'm going to be a teacher, I'm going to be running a store in cape , I 'm going to law school, I'm going to open a day care. Everyone was happy for you but when you didn't do anything you said you was , everyone stopped hearing you . This year I stopped helping some people in my life , I was called a liar and a Bitch in fount of my kids. So when it came time to do things I wasn't there If you set back and look at the ones that help and the ones that are on the getting end and that never help. I don't have to say it . This post says it for it's self. Yes we do forgive but that don't mean you put yourself back out there to get lied on or hurt again. ( I wont ) . I will start doing things for my family and start our own family things at Thanksgiving and Christmas, Easter, And so forth. To the people that don't know me. You can say anything you wont. It don't matter anymore. I'm sorry for all the missed spelt words in this blog. I'm not the best speller in the world . Thank you .